There are plenty of myths when it comes to working in ministry. Often people believe they are too old to be a contributing member of the kids ministry team (this is completely false, by the way). Others start to think of reasons why people can’t do specifics types of ministry.
The truth is that the way we do ministry (read: methods) is constantly changing as we aim to share the unchanging truth of Jesus. When we focus on all of the seemingly significant reasons as to why we can’t do ministry, we lose focus on how we are able to lead our kids to the next level and experience Jesus like never before.
Here are a few myths I have heard as a family pastor. There are definitely more myths than these, but my hope is to expand our response past the typical “we can’t do that” reaction.
7 Myths About Serving In Kids Ministry
“Kids Have Short Attention Spans”
You cannot convince me that this is true. I have two children under the age of four, and I assure you that their attention spans are not short. Young kids have the ability to watch the same show 10 times in a row while middle schoolers are able to play the same video game for five straight hours. Kids’ attention spans are not short, but you do have to captivate their imaginations and engage them.
“Kids Are Unable To Understand Deep Truths”
Typically this statement really means, “I am unable to communicate God’s truths simply enough for a kid to understand.” Every Bible verse can be simplified to a main point and applied to our lives. Don’t put the bar too low, kids will always surprise you.
“Rotating Leaders Doesn’t Hinder Spiritual Growth”
Kids need consistency with leaders and schedules. Each volunteer has a unique way that they lead. Rotations leave the kids wondering who their teachers will be from week to week. The best way to minister to kids is through consistent weekly volunteers.
“Parents Will Be Upset If You Implement A Check-In System”
I have found that the exact opposite is true. Parents are used to check-in systems at the doctor’s office and their children’s schools. At my church, parents warmly welcomed implementing a check-in system. It communicated that their children’s safety mattered to the staff.
“Preschoolers Are Too Young To Learn The Bible”
Parents know that kids are learners. Kids are constantly picking up habits, phrases, and ideas from the outside world. True, a preschooler might not be able to read the Bible, but I guarantee that they can listen to you read to them.Â
“If It Was Good Enough For Me, Then It Is Good Enough For Them”
This doesn’t make sense in any other area of life. Are outhouses still acceptable? Are carriages the best mode of transportation? Of course not. Technology has improved, and those who ignore the changes will miss out on opportunities to reach today’s generation.
 “I Can Just Show Up And Share What I Know”
False. Kids need routines, schedules, and consistency. This all takes planning and prep. If you just show up you will end up with 1.5 hours of unprepared playtime – not Bible study.
Now What?
I hope that you and your ministry team are able to overcome some of these thoughts and start focusing on what God can do through kids ministry. Your role as a kids leader is vital to encourage and equip families to serve Jesus.
What thoughts are hindering you from leading at the next level in kids ministry?
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